Don't get stuck in a bottle...
It continues to amaze me, some times even daily…, this lack of knowledge and ignorance that people - in general, have.
Then again, I read *somewhere* that 58 % (per cent) of American adults never read a book after high school, and that 70 % (per cent) haven’t been in a book store. And if those figures are transferable to the entire world, it’s not just sad. It’s downright tragic!
Education is important. Knowledge is power!
So I guess that give’s you one part of the explanation as to why I am continuously amazed - some times even daily, about the lack of knowledge and ignorance amongst people in general, particularly when the addiction disease is the topic of a discussion…
There are mainly two aspects of the addiction disease most people don’t understand, or are fully able to comprehend - at all…
The first is that addiction is a disease - and that it’s completely comparable with for instance allergy.
Side note - Questions:
You wouldnʼt give an apple to someone whoʼs allergic to apples - and would die of eating it, now would you?!
So why do you continue to offer alcohol - or any other drug, to an addict?!
Besides from the undisputed fact that the addiction disease is a deadly disease, it is also a two-parted disease;
First: You got the mental part of the disease, or as I prefer to call it: The mental insanity side of the disease.
The part that has complete control over your mind, your thoughts, your good and bad behaviour, your full subconscious inner-self.
The part that subconsciously and constantly speculates, calculates, make plans, comes up with new, plausible and not so plausible explanations, bad, poor and flimsy excuses, so that consumption can continue in loneliness with “somewhat” peace of mind…
Secondly: You got the physical part of the disease.
The part the controls your body, how it physically works and functions.
The part that - even though your addiction disease abuse might have caused various, numerous, life-threatening and life-challenging damages on your body and its organs, makes it ache and crave for more. Much more…
Whether you are addicted to alcohol, drugs, pills, a combined abuser (a+d+p), sex, shopping, gambling, training, work - you name it, ALL variations of an addiction disease has one main common denominator that lies as “the root” of it all - to call it that.
Since we are all cultural diversified individuals and live cultural diversified life’s, each addiction disease variation spreads out from this core root and leads to numerous and various results, diversified and different subsequent consequences.
Picture or visualize it like this:
The addiction disease is like the root of a tree, and each addiction variation of the disease is like the branches that grows and spreads out from the tree’s trunk.
If you look close enough, they all “look” quite differently, they all “grows” quite differently, they all “spreads out” quite differently, they all “behave” quite differently and the “final results” are quite, quite differently.
I am a recovering alcoholic, 41 years of age and I had a 22 year long addiction abuse “career” before I hit my rock bottom. During this period of time I have abused alcohol, drugs, pills and I have combined all mentioned in multiple combination, but my main addiction has always been alcohol. That’s what started it all…
I have been through a six week “life-style-changing” treatment program, and I have been provided with the right and proper tools to live a sober life. I have, among many, many other major, important and life changing discoveries, gotten a better understanding of my addiction disease.
I remember that, four weeks into this program, a female (alcohol addict) participant received a written invitation from some family members or close friends, for an upcoming wedding or big birthday party that - among many quite sensational and remarkable things said: “… You can drink red wine, now that you been through this 6 week alcoholic treatment program now can’t you???” … (I am NOT kidding!)
I mean - seriously! Come on!
It does make you wonder if this person actually thought and believed that this was a 6 week learn-how-to-drink program…
It also makes you wonder what “lack-of-knowledge” or plain, downright stupid and ignorant “life-bubble” some people actually live in…
I don’t hold it against them. I have learned not to. Because they do not know. They are uninformed, uneducated and ignorant individuals.
If you don’t have an open and unprejudiced mind, you are not able to learn about, gain insight into, fully understand or fully comprehend all aspects of an addiction disease - at all.
I have, since I left this program, watched and listened to a great number of other alcoholics, drug addicts and combined addicts share their life’s experiences with others, and what changes the six week “life-style-changing” treatment program has made on them personally, their values, their beliefs and the new-born hope and faith they have obtained for The New Life that lies ahead.
As with everything else in life, some with more realism, truthfulness, sincerity and trustworthiness than others…
Side note: It’s all in the mirror - remember?!
They have - like me, been provided with the right and proper tools to make the right choices in life.
How we choose to use these tools, are entirely up to us…
Even though I have learned a lot from watching and listening to this variety of addicts, the one person that - still to this day, have given me (being addicted to alcohol) the very most, and that reflected in my mirror in the strongest, hardest and most equal way, was a person that was addicted to gambling!
Think THROUGH THAT for a few moments…
I donʼt normally give book recommendations, but I will make one important exception:
“The Big Book” (Alcoholics Anonymous)
AAʼs entire organization is built upon the visionary steps and principles of this great book. And multiple anonymous addiction disease groupings have grown - and spread out, from this root over the years.
AA’s twelve step program is - in its core essence, a “Life-Style-Changing”-program. It’s “An Easy Program” for “Complicated Human Beings”!
It’s a book written almost 100 years ago, but it could just as well have been written today, and be valid for the next one hundred years to come.
There are three ways to read this book.
Which way you choose to read it, is entirely up to you.
I share this book with you with a sincere hope for a bigger insight in - and a better understanding of, the addiction disease and for freedom from co-addiction-dependency throughout a biggest possible joy of Life and fully self-experienced peace of mind.
An upmost friendly advice:
If you haven’t had enough (addiction disease) “beating”, and - if you are the one and only GOD in your own life - it’s not recommended reading…
You always have a choice;
To do this - or that… Follow this path - or that… Live - or die…
Lack of knowledge, pure ignorance and plain stupidity may kill you - or someone you love and/or care much about…
It’s not a game. It’s deadly serious.
What’s your choice?!
- or should I dare say “excuse”…?!
“The Viking”
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